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sweetsixteener Posted - 17 July 2011 3:13
i love the maternity style shirts the one that like ppl say "looks like a bra" on the top..
i was wearing something i rly love last shabbos thats like that and i was talking to my aunt abt tznius and she told me that what i was wearing is not tznius and i said but i love it..!
and she told me that for that that im enjoying what im wearing its worth it for me to sit in gehenim?
so i decided to stop wearing it and its soooo hard for me
i have so many cloths that r like that and i rly want to wear it but when i think abt what my aunt said abt sitting in gehenim i dont know..
what should i do??
:(
taon Posted - 02 August 2011 1:14
Great job stopping! Maybe focus on the reward you get whenever you dont wear those things. Can you find some way to combine that with something tznius? (Im sorry if thats ridiculous, im a boy and dont know)
ner daluk Posted - 08 August 2011 0:53
Wow, that's a real level of Yiras Shamayim! Very impressive.

Most things that are nisyonos are very hard at the beginning but as time goes on and conquering in this area for many days or weeks or even months it becomes much easier. Hang in there you did the right thing!

<3rochela Posted - 11 August 2011 0:54
look in magazines or go shopping n see if theres another style similar that u like. or maybe u cud find shirts that have a lower line, like more in the mid stomach area so its not so tight by the chest area?
if have the same prob- its a rly cute style.

words that come from the heart enter the heart

depressed4eva Posted - 11 August 2011 0:54
I am proud of you for stopping. However, not to be rude or anything, the "enjoy it now and burn in hell later" attitude is not one that should be passed on... You should stop dressing in a certian matter because you WANT to stop for whatever reason (personal or sensitivity wise...) NOT because you are scared that you will burn later. Obviously, bear in mind that their is an element of yiras H-shem but once again think of it in a positve vs determintaly negative attitude.
soulrebel Posted - 18 August 2011 22:06
Buy new clothes. The thrill of newness might demote this particular shirt's rank in the pecking order
Shopaholic7 Posted - 31 August 2011 23:46
i dont no how frum u r so if u were pnts then dont read it.
im sure uve seen sum real cute pants but u would hav none str8 awat that u wont were it so 2 u will learn that wat u r doin is rong . :0

good luc

evryrosethorns Posted - 15 September 2011 23:35
i think its called a sweetheart neckline. its really hard if you have a lot of that style,make if you wear the same color shell it won't be as noticeable??

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