Anything about JUDAISM
Anything about JUDAISM
profile | register | search


This is an archived site, for new discussion please see JewsWithQuestions.com
Forums | | Post Reply Send Topic To a Friend
Author Topic
canttakeit Posted - 25 November 2009 22:40
i cant take it anymore!!

my father is verbally abusive to everyone and it is driving me crazy! he is not helpful at all with anything in life and just always gets upset! i cant take living with him anymore i am going crazy!

josh1 Posted - 29 November 2009 16:05
did you ever tell him how you feel?
reach4thestars Posted - 29 November 2009 16:05
canttakeit-
this sounds serious. does anyone else know the situation? talk to someone you trust - a rabbi or mentor or something.
you should not have to go thru this alone! tell someone immediately of the situation!
hatzlacha!
JewishAndProud! Posted - 09 March 2010 0:25
canttakeit, I am so sorry that you have to deal with this! It sounds so tough!
Although, I cant really relate, I can understand the pain you are feeling. My best friend's father used to be an extremely violent/abusing parent to her when she was younger. He hurt her, both emotionally and physically. He lowered her self-esteem. And, he deffinately did not get any better when I came to her house to visit her.
I'll tell you the same thing that I told her-if Hashem brought you to it, He will bring you through it. I know it may sound cliche and rather stupid-but, it's true.
HASHEM only gives us these tests because He KNOWS that we can pass them. Otherwise, what would be the point of giving these tests to us in the first place? And, you will only come out stronger and a better person from this.
I feel for you. I will daven for you. Always remember, you are NOT alone.
I totally love you!
(Remember: You will overcome this obstacle! You have the strength! I believe in you!)
**And, you are not the problem...your father is. Hopefully, when you BEZRAT HASHEM, become a parent-you will not repeat his mistakes**

The user name says it all...

elbeee15 Posted - 27 April 2010 1:42
JewishAndroud:
i Just wanna say i agree with you most strongly on what you posted. i also feel that when Hashem Deals you a hand it is meant for you to overcome it. Canttakeit-though i may not know what you are going through i can honestly say that Hashem would not put you through that if He didnt want you to come out strong. Hand=g in there do your hardest and Hashem will take care of the rest!!!!! with much Hatzlocha
Neshomele Posted - 12 May 2010 15:37
sigh
canttakeit, I totally know what ur going through. my step dad (!!!) is totally abusive. im having such a hard time. but frends are here. they help a bit. and i learn how to deal with it
not easy, but as JAP said, its doable.
i feel u. ur pain. literally.
we must know that Hashem is with us. He sees us. Sees our pain. and He loves us. very very much. He wants us to get stronger.
my mom unfortunately cant do much about the situation. what about ur mom? ever spoke to another person about it? it really might help. and yes. its NOT UR FAULT. ur only a victim. remember that. its NOTHING to be embarrassed for...
aml!!!
gonna daven for u


God - grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot chage, the courage to change the things i can - and the wisdom to know the difference

actresstoo Posted - 06 September 2010 22:42
canttakeit-
wow ur post sounds exactly like it came out of my lips. my father is verbally abusive and if i try to even say one tiny word to tell him how much damage he causes his children when he talks that way, he just gets more verbally abusive and tells me to stop "being everyone's lawyer". i am sick of it too, but i always try to think of my future, when i will iy"H be able to have my own home and my own family and raise my children in the way that i think is correct. and for now...just keep on davening, make sure u have someone to talk to about this so it doesn't all stay bottled up inside of you...and we're all here for u!

Libi B'Mizrach-V'Anochi B'sof Ma'arav...

josh1 Posted - 12 September 2010 23:16
The new year should be one that is much better for all you guys. Davening for you.

Click Here To Close Thread, Administrators & Moderators Only.

Show All Forums | Post Reply