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Make Aliyah Posted - 06 May 2009 17:27
I've heard that the kallah gives her chasan either a kiddush cup or a pair of cuff links in the yichud room, and that the chasan gives his kallah some type of jewelry.

To the marrieds out there: What did you do? Also, is there a typical price range that's used, or does it just depend on the couple?

nechy Posted - 18 May 2009 22:15
i guess it depends on your circle. amongst my friends and family, while the chosson gives the kalla jewelry, there is no real stndard for what the kallah gives, and in my case, as with many people i know, i just gave him a meaningful (relatively inexpensive) gift - I wont go into the reasons why, but I gave my husband a plaque for our door with our last name on it. My friend's sister gave her husband a deep-fryer... go with your gut unless you are told of a specific custom.
grafix Posted - 05 November 2009 4:26
my husband gave me pearls in the yichud room... i didn't give him anything. in fact, i never even heard of the kallah giving a gift to her chassan in the yichud room.
smile=) Posted - 17 January 2011 23:43
what do ppl DO in a yichud room???
iluvmyfrnds Posted - 11 February 2011 3:45
EAT.
they have been fasting alll dayy
heather Posted - 03 March 2011 1:13
give each other a kiss?!
heather Posted - 23 March 2011 3:44
Enjoy each other for the 1st time.. in a more physical way? a little hug/kiss?!
lol =D Posted - 08 April 2011 3:37
u just gave me a much needed laf! thanx so much!!!
soulrebel Posted - 22 April 2011 3:14
Btw, from someone who knows someone who works in a hall- there are security cameras in there
soulrebel Posted - 29 April 2011 1:19
I've heard that since they're starving from fasting all day, they eat. And hold hands

the other stuff comes after the wedding

just saying what I've overheard, never been in one

lol =D Posted - 29 April 2011 1:19
y wud they dothat? its wierd!
lol =D Posted - 04 May 2011 23:31
btw i meant abt the cameras ;)
soulrebel Posted - 23 June 2011 2:26
"security"? I don't know, if I ran a hall, I'd have someone search the room for peeping toms or psychos- no cameras!

I'm just repeating what I've heard from a reliable source- there are cameras. Logic dictates that they are on some of the time.

No wonder I always wanted to get married in a park!

baisyaakover16 Posted - 07 July 2011 23:44
to lol =D,
they dont put cameras in the yichud room, they put them everywhere in hotels and places, for regular security purposes!! lol

A person is at their highest when they stoop down to help others- unknown

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